Discover How Wonderful You Are!
Great flirts know who they are, rejoice in it and are honest about it. They feel
good about themselves and convey that to others. If you want to be like this, it’s
important to know what’s great about you and to be proud of it.
WHO ARE YOU?
What kind of person are you?
Write down what comes into your head when you read the question. Sense it and let
it flow. Remember, when you are honest with yourself, there is no right or wrong,
there is just what is . . .
To give you some idea, when I did this exploration myself. I wrote quite
a lot and here’s some of it:
- I am a person who loves animals.
- I write, I run groups and get a buzz from spending time with my cat, hanging
out on the Internet and being with friends.
- I love coaching people to realize more of who they are.
- I am highly flirtatious and a voracious networker.
- I enjoy the time I spend with my lover and I love my own company.
- I like adventures.
- I relish good food.
Now reread what you wrote.
Flirting Tip - Great flirts love who they are and what they do.
What do you really want?
Now you have defined who you are, you have to know what you want, otherwise how
will you know if you’ve got it? Here’s another exploration:
NLP Flirting Exploration – What do you really want
Is there something you have been longing to do? What are those big dreams, those
deep wishes and desires that you harbour deep inside? Maybe you’d like to meet the
love of your life, get into a great relationship, or just make more friends. All
of these are by-products of becoming a great flirt. If you were to wake up tomorrow
and find a miracle had happened, what would your ideal life be like?
What do you want? Describe how it will be for you. Make sure you see it in colour,
like a movie and that you’re the star in the movie - feel what you feel – where
are the sensations? Where do they start? What do you see? Is it in colour? Describe
the visuals. Listen to the sounds you hear.. the voices, the tones..
Next:
- Read what you have written.
- Now imagine everything you want being put into an enormous balloon and let
it float away into the future.
Why should you let go of what you want? It may seem strange, but once you know
what you want and then let go of it, opportunities will open out for you. I don’t
know why, but people who continually worry about not getting what they want seem
to struggle harder than those who let go.
Believe in your dreams and then get on with having a good time.
