Articles
You will become as small as your controlling desire; as great as your dominant aspiration." James Allen
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Selected Articles
What do you do when she 'flirts on your turf'.
She and he are deep in conversation. She is flashing her eyes, twirling her hair, pouting, lip licking and touching him. She's giving out all the signals of a woman on the prowl and she's with YOUR man! What do you do?
What I am about to suggest won't be found in any book of rules....
Signals of flirting
How do you know when someone is flirting with you? What signals are you sending out and how might they be interpreted?
Sexual Energy
We do have sexual energy, and we can learn to harness it in all areas of our life. Discover what makes a man instantly attractive to a woman and vice versa?
You have been programmed with beliefs that may not suit you. If they don’t you can learn to get rid of them and start believing in things that empower you and give you hope and motivate you.
Discover How Wonderful You Are!
Believe in Yourself. Believe in your dreams and then get on with having a good time.
Attraction Addiction
Guys are you an attraction addict? Do you go totally overboard with women and then drop them when the gloss wears off? Girls, have you been seduced by one? Have you fallen madly in love because someone 'makes you feel like a goddess' and then found out they're not? Read this and learn to slow down...
How NOT to Sabotage Yourself
How do you know when someone's right for you?
'Sarah and Craig met when their eyes locked across a crowded hotel lobby. Sarah was magnetized. He was gorgeous - and she loved his butt. Both of them were in their 50's, he divorced, she a widow'.... Find out how to climb down from the lust cloud and get clarity! >>>more
Keys to successful Flirting
What are the keys that together unlock the doorway to being a fantastic flirt? Discover the secrets of great flirts..
Why do people need to learn to flirt?
"Why would we need to learn how to flirt if flirting is a natural skill?" Find out the answer to the most question I am asked whenever I appear on TV or am interviewed in the press?
How can the psycho-technology of NLP help you to become a more natural flirt?
We spend our entire waking [and some of our sleeping] life moving from state to state. At one time or another we have all experienced states of calm, excitement, confidence, joy, curiosity, compassion, love, contentedness, fun, freedom and much, more
Kissing
When I meet a man who knows how to kiss, I’m putty in his hands. Ladies, when you find a man for whom kissing is not a must-do prelude to but a major part of making love; hang on to him, especially if he continues to kiss afterwards!
Get over it
When someone leaves we need to go through the same process of grieving, acceptance and moving on as we would if that person died. Discover what you need to do in order to heal quickly and move on with a smile on your face and hope for the future? . >>more
NLP what it is and how it works
One of the great influences on my work is the psychology of NLP originated by Richard Bandler Find out how NLP works
Love songs - the hidden menace
As 'That's no way to say goodbye' oozes out of the speakers, the tears flow freely, the stomach churns with awful feelings, pain wracks the body and despair fills your soul. Yep, suicide was definitely an option when you listened to Leonard Cohen..
What can attending flirting playshop do for you?
So many of the people I meet just don't know how to go about flirting because they are sabotaging themselves. Find out how attending a Flirting Academy event can change your life.
The qualities of a Success-Flirt
Short piece on what makes a successful flirt aka Success-Flirt [SF]
How to keep a man happy
Men and women act and think differently. Instead of being irritated by and criticising the differences, we will live more harmoniously with men when we learn to celebrate and enjoy those differences.
Man approaches woman
A man sitting at a bar sees a beautiful woman sitting alone, and having just read some books on ‘meeting women’ he approaches her...amusing read
I thought it was more than sex
You meet a man, you are attracted, what happens when you allow fantasy to take over from common sense.. Find out if you're kidding youself
Sexual Harassment v flirting
How do we know if someone is just flirting or sexually harassing us? This begs the question ‘Who is responsible for your feelings’.
Will we ever understand them?
Will women ever understand men and will men ever understand women? This story reached me on the internet as a joke. I have no idea of the origin and am happy to credit the author. Beware the danger of mind-reading and learn to ask for clarification.
Cr*p Education
Why do so many people suffer from lack of self confidence. What stops so many of us living our dreams. Why are so many people flocking to personal growth courses to find themselves? What went wrong and how can we right it?
What is Flirting?
A new way of interpreting this natural mechanism - The dictionary on my bookshelf defines flirting as "Behaving or acting amorously without emotional commitment." I agree with this but I also have many other definitions of flirting. I have chosen a very generic definition of flirting on which to base my creation of the Flirting Academy.
Review of Speed Seduction
Guys, if you have ever fixated on a woman and thought 'She's the only one for me'. Ross Jeffries will put you right. "There are 10 million vaginas in the world and you think you can only get one - bullsh*t!"
Great Relationships and how to have them
Guest article by NLP Trainer Reg Connolly of Pegasus Training
Letter to a 14 year old girl
What happens is that we have natural inclinations to do things as a child. As we get older, other people stop us. Sometimes they are right, sometimes they are wrong...
The Power of Thought
Your thoughts can influence anything from your health to who you attract into your life. A must read..
How I got started
Read about how I developed my career in 'flirting'
