The most effective and sometimes most challenging of all flirting tips is to ‘become more interesting
If you want to learn to flirt the key to success is to be the kind of person people enjoy flirting with. Here are ten tips on how you can make yourself more interesting.
1. Explore life
Are you stuck in a rut – watching the same TV shows, going to the same places, spouting off the same ideas? If so then it’s time to get out there and look at different ideas, places and points of view. If you’ve never cooked, take a cookery class. If you hate the inside of engines, read up on how an engine works. Try new food, read a different newspaper, join an online list about something you never thought of exploring. What will make you interesting is your novel approach to something completely new! You’ll have lots to talk about even if it’s to say how you learned that you and cooking are not a match made in heaven!
2. Share your new knowledge
Start blogging, or recording your impressions of your new explorer lifestyle. Set up a Facebook page and post links to stuff you’re learning. Use the info in your online dating profile.
3. Get off your backside Sitting at home watching TV or going online to the same places or playing virtual games is not gonna get you out there flirting. Make up your mind that one week after reading this you will have done something to get yourself out there and shake out the cobwebs. Join a dance class, dance naked in front of your mirror, sing along with the radio, pick flowers, go walk in a forest… anything to get you going.
4. Love your quirks
Most people who are a little eccentric or different think that everyone else is normal and they are not. In my flirting classes we put people together in pairs to discuss what they’re passionate about. It’s joyful to see people sharing their passions and causes and finding their exercise partner getting more and more interested. So, embrace who you are, and love yourself for it.
5. Care about something Remember that if you don’t care about anything, then why should anyone care about you. Get passionate about something that will benefit more than just you. Choose something that appeals from homeless dogs to saving the rainforests. There are endless causes and you will find something that appeals to you. Then get active supporting it. This is how you get to meet and flirt with new people… through common passions and caring.
6. Keep your ego in check
People avoid arrogant people like the plague. It’s time for you to take a long look at yourself and ask if there is any area where you think you’re superior. Notice how you react to others who don’t know as much as you. Instead of being a big ego monkey, try spending more time asking other people what they enjoy or are good at
7 Take risks
If you don’t leave your comfort zone, you’ll never find new people to flirt with and attract. Make up your mind to do something whacky within the next 7 days. You might want to argue a completely different idea, or dress up in fancy costume or sing in public and more to the point – what is that thing that you’ve always wanted to do and haven’t yet. Now’s the time to go do it. Remember when you’re old and grey, do you really want to be the person who says ‘If only I’d tried this or done that?’ Go for it now
Being interesting does involve being interested in other people, but it’s also important to be the kind of person other people want to be around. So, if you aren’t having much success meeting and flirting with people you are attracted to, these flirting tips are gonna help you get there, if you get up and start now!!!
