So, you want to become a Facebook flirt?  Well there are one or two things you need to know about flirting online before you begin.

These Facebook flirting tips will get you well on the way to flirting and dating women online.

Purposeful Profile

The first thing is to get your profile sorted.  When you ask women to friend you on facebook, chances are they’re gonna look at your profile before agreeing.

  • Your profile has to make you interesting and the kind of guy women would want to flirt with.
  • It should contain a good set of pictures of you BUT if you’re not great looking or very photogenic, choose pictures that reflect what you’re interested in.
  • Make sure you select ‘single’ as your status and that it shows in your profile
  • If you want local girls show your hometown, if not leave it blank or choose something like Lovetown Tennessee that sounds kind of intruiging.  You can always explain later that you chose it because you would have loved to come from somewhere called Lovetown as you believe in Love.  [girls like corny stuff like that]
  • List out films you like and add in a chick flick or two that you’ve seen and tolerated or even liked. That’ll make her feel more rapport with you.  Do the same with books.

Fascinating Posts

  • Never say anything offensive about women in your posts and never complain about not scoring.
  • Research Love Quotes or Quotes on Romance on Google and then copy and paste quotes onto your status.
  • Research Romantic Vacations on Google and post links to them into your status and add some words like ‘I’d love to go here with my sweetie’  or ‘Wherever I am on vacation, if my girl is with me it’s paradise’
  • Post your triumphs.  If you scored in a football match or won a game of chess.  Post that in your status.
  • Post at least once a week so she gets the idea you’re a regular there. Women don’t want to flirt with men who aren’t gonna be there to respond.
  • Check your facebook every day! The early flirting bird catches the attractive worm.

Here are four tips that will help keep you on path to success when flirting with women on Facebook

Don’t Poke Her

Poking is too easy.  A guy can just click and send. A hot girl will likely get a lot of pokes and you’ll just be one of the many using the same old boring technique. You need to do something to attract her attention that puts you above the regular guy flirts.

You want to stand out from the other guys as more interesting.  And above all, as interested in her.

First Messages Count

The way we get people interested in us is by being interested in them. A good facebook flirt will research his flirtee’s profile and find something to ask about.  She’ll be flattered to think that you are interested enough to do some research on her.

  • Look through her wall and find something to like.  But don’t click ‘like’. That’s just like poking and sometimes girls have conversations on their page with their girlfriends.  Clicking like appears like you’re eavesdropping.     If you can’t find something to like on her wall, check out her profile for books, movies, games.
  • Send her a short message commenting about a book or film or post she’s put up.  Instead of commenting, ask a question.  An easy one is ‘what do you like best about [name of film/book/thing mentioned in post].  Make it a bit cocky, tease her a bit and add in curiosity.. like ‘I’m asking because…. and leave it blank.  You can make up your own but the key is to leave her wanting to know more
  • Notice what town she comes from and ask her about it ‘what’s your favorite hangout in [name of town]
  • Complement her.  Don’t just say ‘you have nice eyes’ instead say ‘I love that photo of you with your dog’… so the comments are not personal and not like a.n. other guys will use

Watch Your Mouth

Yes, that means you!  First impressions count and how you say what you want to say will make or break your facebook flirt.

  • Make sure you get your grammar and spelling right.  She might not notice that your grammar and spelling are good, but if they’re not they’ll stick out like piece of coal in the snow.   Google Chrome has a great spellchecker.
  • Never use profanities or swear – if you want to use the ‘f’ word for emphasis substitute some symbols for most of the letters.. or use the word ‘fracking’.
  • Never post naked pictures of yourself – this is a sure way to get you banned from Facebook
  • Never insult a girl or disagree with her in public.
  • Use private messaging at first, because no girl wants all her facebook flirts appearing on her wall.
  • Don’t use the ‘chat’ until she’s responded to your first message.  Chat is too intrusive for a first flirt.

Enjoy your Facebook flirts and be sure to comment on here if you have any good facebook flirting tips of your own.

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