A guide to the best books and courses on flirting and seduction for men
by Adrian Dale – confidence coach for men
If you haven’t already done so, you might want to try typing in a few select words like “seduction”, “get laid”, or “meeting women” into an internet search engine. You’ll find that there is tons of stuff out there. Which brings us to your next problem – How do you know whether or not any of this information is any good?
Which is where I come in. What follows is a list of what I consider to be some of the most useful stuff out there for any man who is looking to become more proficient with women.
http://www.thelss.com – The London Seduction Society sign-up page. There’s very little on this site. All of the action occurs in private on the list and in real life meet-ups. The LSS acts as a support base for men in London and the UK who are interested in meeting up with other like-minded men. Similar groups exist for most major cities around the world. http://www.doubleyourdating.com – a 5 star site. This is a commercial site offering products by David De Angelo. One of the best resources available to men who want to be more successful with women. David De Angelo’s free newsletter is a valuable source of information. David sends out regular newsletters containing lots of high quality information. His products are similarly high quality and I highly recommend them. http://www.fastseduction.com – This is a gigantic site and is probably one of the best places to look for information on seduction. They have an excellent beginner’s guide; host the moderated alt.seduction.fast newsgroup; have reviews of seduction products; have archives of posts written by guys who have huge amounts of experience with women and also there are links to lots of other worthwhile resources from this site. Of particular note are the related sites http://gunwitch.fastseduction.com and the now slightly out of date http://www.pickupguide.com. http://www.seduction.com- Home of Ross Jeffries’ Speed Seduction products. Ross was the original pioneer of using techniques from the field of psychology in the area of seduction. While I do find what Ross teaches to be effective, it can be difficult to learn to use well. I feel that some of his products are not really suited to beginners as they require you to be reasonably capable of conversing with women in the first place. Having said all that, most of the other people out there teaching and being successful at seduction incorporate ideas that they got from Ross originally. Ross’ more recent products, and especially his seminars have an emphasis on creating personal change in your own life to allow you to go out and get what you want from women.
http://www.realsocialdynamics.com, http://www.mysterymethod.com – These sites are run by guys who have very similar styles when it comes to women. Most of the information you could learn on one of these guys’ workshops is available for free in the archives on fastseduction.com. What you won’t get, however, is the experience you’d get from seeing them demonstrate their methods to you for real. I’ve met these guys. They really can do what they say.
Other Resources
Secrets of Attraction is Peta’s latest book. You can order it in pdf format at low cost here Sexual Key<- If you liked Ross’ early Speed Seduction material, then you’ll probably enjoy this book. It focuses on using hypnotic and romantic language to get women turned on. High Status Male – This book suggests a fairly gentle approach to women. While I think the sentiment is good, I believe it could be easy for a beginner to misunderstand this book. http://www.advancedmacking.com- This product may have changed since I bought it, however at that time all of the best stuff was included in the free samples on the website, making it not really worth purchasing. Some of the advice given here (eg leaning in to whisper in women’s ears) contradicts advice given elsewhere, but since you can see it for free on the website, it is worth a quick look.
http://www.davidshade.com – Advanced sexual techniques, including using hypnosis, and some really way out stuff.
http://www.mindcontrolseduction.com- This is probably the best of the Psychic Seduction websites. Of course whether or not you believe in such things may influence how much attention you pay this product. Personally, I think there are easier and more direct and reliable ways to get women!
http://www.howtosucceedwithwomen.com – Pragmatic, if somewhat weedy advice on women. Nothing too technical here, and all very basic stuff. Worth a look at the free stuff on the site, though.
Prometheus Rising by Robert Anton Wilson – This is a book which has nothing to do with seduction. Or maybe it has everything to do with seduction? It is a deeply profound book that will make you question the very reality you thought you lived in.
The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature by Matt Ridley, Sperm Wars by Robin Baker – Both excellent books on sex and evolution. Reading these and similar books will really open your mind on how we humans came to be the way we are. Also recommended are The Mating Mind by Geoffrey Miller and any of Richard Dawkins books on evolution.
Grooming Essentials For Men by David Waters – I shouldn’t need to say this but grooming is very important. Your looks may not be critical to your success with women, however, if you lack decent hygiene, or are badly presented it will count strongly against you.
http://www.adriandale.com – I couldn’t not mention my own website! Whilst I make no claims to be an expert on seduction, I have worked with many people who felt that a lack of confidence was holding them back from being successful with women. If you feel that this applies to you, then as a Confidence Coach, I can almost certainly help you. If you aren’t convinced yet, browse around Adrian’s site.. You’ll soon know if I am for you!
