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Never mind the
technique - feel the fun
Magazine articles on sex concentrate too
much on technique and not enough on the enjoyment and fun side of sex
according to Sex Psychologist Dr Petra Boynton.
She and two colleagues from University College London studied 26 sex
articles in 63 magazine issues. The magazines looked at were
Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Company, New Woman, She, and Real Health and
Beauty.
The primary focus was on "performance" rather than
"pleasure". No account was taken of the importance of
communication between partners, or the possibility of relationship
problems. Women have a distorted idea of what good sex is about.
In a talk at the British Psychological Society's centenary meeting, Dr
Boynton said said: "Women are expected to make perfect sex their
goal. They are told that you push certain buttons and this is what
happens. It's a quick route from A to B."
Women were getting the message that if they didn't get into these new
techniques, their men would start to look elsewhere.
Men were assumed to be proficient and confident about sex, despite the
fact that an estimated 31% of men had sexual difficulties. She wanted to
see lifestyle magazines continue to publish sex advice, but with a
greater focus on communication, pleasure and enjoyment.
"These articles are not empowering. They don't talk to you about
desire, pleasure and enjoyment, and they don't allow people any room to
ask if they have a problem. Sex is seen as a serious activity to perform
alongside all the other activities in a busy woman's day."
We women have been the slaves of media dictates for too long.
IN the 50's most women's magazines indicated that the way to a man's
heart was via food rather than fucking. Women like my mother devoured
articles like How to keep your man happy - 1001 ways to be creative with
corned beef'. In the 60's we smoked so much dope we couldn't
even remember what we'd done in bed let alone find the time to pore over
magazines. In the 80's anorexic women with power shoulders learnt how to
substitute vibrators for men and the sex-crazed 90's bombarded us with a
host of techniques to keep our viagra laced man in our bed and out of
hers and hers and hers.
I think we need a new sex-foodie fashion for the 01's. Is this the
moment, I wonder, to dig out and submit to Cosmo my articles on the 'joy
of cocksucking - 1001 ways to enjoy semen' and ''tasty tales from
pussyville'
Amsterdam home of sex, drugs,
euthanasia and now gay marriage!
Amsterdam must be the hippest city in the world. As
well as offering cannabis in coffee shops, decriminalized prostitution
and legal euthanasia, it is now the first European city to really allow
gays their rights. This weekend four gay couples got married in
this cool city as a new law
officially recognizing gay marriage comes into force after 15 years of
campaigning.
Amsterdam Mayor Job Cohen officiated at the wedding of three male
couples and two women. Government ministers who attended the weddings
probably realised that baby kissing alone won't get them
re-elected.
I feel some new linguistic twists coming on. Behind every succesful man
is a good husband. Or, a woman's only as good as the wife that supports
her.
And isn't it time we Brits moved on. How long are are we going to drag
our feet before we allow our citizens to indulge in the joys of getting
stoned whilst drinking a frothy cappuccino with cannabis cocoa topping.
And how about some legalized, regulated and safe prostitution as well as
freedom to legally unite in not so holy matrimony with whomsoever we
choose.
Taking the piss out of the
president's penis
Unlike the United States, taking the piss out of the president of
Zimbabwe is a
serious crime as factory boss, George Potgieter, found out
recently.
Potgieter was arrested after telling workers
at a Harare engineering firm that Robert
Mugabe has a rubber penis made in China.
Potgieter, who is 23, was arrested charged under the Law And Order
Maintenance Act. This makes it an offence to expose the president to
hatred, contempt or ridicule.
His workers grassed him up to the cops when he told them they had "no brains
because you are being led by a president who has a rubber penis made in
China."
Can you imagine how boring it would have been if we'd been forbidden to talk about
Bill Clinton's penis. It was the hottest topic of last year!!!
We'd never have heard all those wonderful jokes about
oral sex not being sex, 1001 uses for a cigar and our language would be
all the poorer without that delightful quote 'I never had sexual
relations with that woman' and as for Monica she would not have forged a
vibrant career selling knitted handbags on the internet. Ah the joy of
free speech!
R U A Txt Flrt?
Text messaging is the ultimate flirting tool, according to a new survey
by Orange.
More than half of boys aged 16 to 18 said they use mobile phone text
messages to ask girls out. Texting is considered less nerve racking and
embarrassing than asking a girl for a date face-to-face.
Orange surveyed 1,000 people between 16 and 18 over three months. While
52 per cent of boys use their mobiles to get a date, only 19 per cent of
girls use it to ask boys out. Fncy a fck - er dte?
However, 47 per cent of girls use texting to gossip about mates and love
lives compared to just three per cent of boys. Over a half of boys and
girls said they are disappointed if they don't get a text message each
day. Gt laid lst nte!
These kids aren't interested in news or information. Not one of the
surveyed subjects used their mobiles to receive news.
Denise Lewis, Orange director of corporate affairs, said: "Where
shyness used to prevent some from communicating their feelings, text
messaging has fully opened the gates." Yr cute!
A total of 373 million text messages were sent over the Orange network
(UK and France) in January alone, an 86 per cent increase in the last
six months.
Interestingly enough I just got a mail from a 14 year old kid who asked
me how to flirt via text messaging. This followed closely a request for
me to create daily flirting tips for text messaging. I think I feel a
lucrative new career path coming on. by Pta Hskl
Divorce lawyers to be driven
out of business by a HUG and a CHAT ?
Do you have a low conflict relationship?. When you do experience
conflict can you initiate open face- to-face discussions about it. Do
you feel your relationship is equal and fair. And do you touch and hug a
lot? If you do, you probably have a much better chance of having a very
long lasting relationship
These findings came to light via a survey by Richard A Mackey into the
meaning of psychological intimacy to partners in heterosexual and
homosexual relationships that have lasted over 30 years.
So what are you waiting for..stop arguing and start hugging NOW!
