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When the pilot light is lit and on level one, the process of turning the heat up or down is a simple one. When the pilot light is out on level 0 it is a much more difficult process to get the heat going. Your body will respond to internal and external triggers by adjusting its level of sexual energy output. This doesn't mean it's a perfect system. In the same way that outside influences have buried our natural ability to flirt, we may have been subject to thoughts or situations that have disrupted the body's ability to generate appropriate levels of sexual energy. It doesn't matter how this happened, what does matter is that it is possible to change it once you recognize the pattern. Is your sexual energy out of control When you have smooth flowing adjustable sexual energy, you will be come a very polished flirt. You will give out just the right amount of sexual energy for the situation. You will be in control of it and eventually, with practice, it will happen appropriately and automatically. Men are particularly prone to cutting off their sexual energy. Guys, this is important. When you see that great girl and you feel sexy you will look at her with those eyes that say secretly 'I desire you'. Women pick up this signal and it tells them you're a sexual man, not someone who's only fit for fixing her car or putting up a shelf. Some people give off too much energy and inappropriately. When this happens the other party gets the signal that person is up for sex. This can frighten off women and give men the wrong idea. BE CAREFUL. The 'Nice Guy- No Sex' syndrome John was a good looking 35 year old professional guy. He was bubbly and appeared confident, but he just couldn't get his relationships with women to go from best friend to bed-friend. He told me that he felt he'd lost touch with his sexuality. John, like many men, suffered from 'nice-guy' syndrome. By 'nice guy' I mean men who are trying hard to appear non-threatening, accommodating and subservient to women. They have a scarcity mentality that says, I'll do anything to get you, even pretend I don't want sex! In his eagerness to turn down the sexual vibes, John had turned off his pilot light. When he learned that it was OK to re-ignite his sexuality, he became bed friends with his best friend. Sometimes women want sex in the same way that men do. Remember it doesn't always pay to turn off when you are turned on. You could miss out on a lot. What makes a man sexually attractive? I asked a group of women about the magic ingredients that make a man instantly attractive. For me it is something they give off, an earthiness, a sense of confidence and, of course, the way they look at me, and the smile. Then I know I want to find out more. One woman said it was something she could see and smell. Some men just have this strength. It isn't about what they look like - they either have it or they don't. Then another jumped in and said 'Do you know that feeling when you walk into a room and suddenly you come up against a wall of testosterone? Testosterone is the hormone that fuels the male sexual system. When a man has his sexual energy turned on, he generates more testosterone. Men who are very comfortable with and in touch with their sexuality will generate more testosterone than those who are suppressing it. Spend time with a man watching the game or some sport that gets him excited and feel the testosterone rising. After a game is a great time to get a man into bed and have hot sex! Testosterone causes the emissions of particles called pheromones, which women can sense. If you turn off completely your sexual energy, the person you are out to attract literally can't smell you. It's not just smell, it's an intake through all the senses and it's unconscious. They literally don't register you as a sexual being! Sexual Magnetism is a powerful drug and we are all primed to react to it Bad Guys Why do you think women fall for bad guys? Bad guys generally don't have enough respect or thought for women to keep their energy at an appropriate level. Their pilot light never goes out but they are always burning on level 4.5. Women pick up on the energy and are 'blinded, dumbed and deafened' by it. They literally drown in it. If they aren't sufficiently on the ball, they fall for the guy and his personality flaws aren't perceptible. Of course they surface later on and then the woman has a 'heartache' time extracting herself from 'lust'. Often people confuse lust with 'love'.
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